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What a jerk!!!!!


I liked this guy who goes to my school, and he liked me so he asked me out and now we are girlfriend/boyfriend. He's really funny and he's sweet, but lately he's been talking to me on the phone about how he got these girls #'s wherever he was then. Now he talks a lot about other girls!!!!!! How he thinks so-and-so likes him, or so-and-so say that. He's always saying he's stronger then the other guys on the football team. How self centered is that???? I mean, am I the only one who thinks so??? ARRRGGGG! what is his problem??? :dgfasd:
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hmm...ok...he's either trying to do two things...one...he's trying to tell you in a suttle way that he is interested in an open relationship...or a no commitment relationship. letting his ego make him believe he can have any girls because they all like him and he's so strong...so why settle down with one. or he is self conscience of himself, and may think you want to leave him and be with other guys, so he's constantly reminding you how good he is, and how other women are just waiting to get what you have.

if the first one is true...then yeah he's a jerk. lol..if the second is true then he has seriousl self esteem issues and going about the wrong way of confirming his worth. the next time he brings up what toher women think of him...ask him what he thinks of those other women. if he hints around that he likes them too...then hit the ground running and don't look back. unless you're into open relationships. if he says he doesn't like them..then the whole point of bringing them up is to make you jealous, and want him more....then you either

a) open up a conversation where you do your best to show him how much he means to you, and that he doesn't need to bring a brochure of himself everytime he's with you.

b) have no response to it, and maybe he will end these silly tactics. or

c) hit the ground running and don't look back.


atleast that what i think..lol.

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*laughs* yeah thanx for the advice. at first i was just going to ignore it emoticon
but then i decided to ask him if he likes them when we were on the phone. He said he didn't. So i asked him why he always talked about them and that it kind of makes me feel bad. He said he didn't know and that he would stop doing it. I think the best thing to do right now them is to let him know how much i like him :lrlr: *sighs* guys are sooo confusing!!!!! but i think i'm going to have a little space from him for awhile, until maybe he can work out his self-esteem issues.
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i'm glad you two talked it out.

lol...i don't think guys are that confusing...i think women own the rights to confusing...guys...you can read like a book. lol

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